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Short answer: Yes! This is the labor God has given me to do to serve His kingdom and to serve and support my family. All my offerings at Heart at Home are for-purchase services that help me stay home to care for my three children.Long Answer: I had a business before I was saved, but God asked me to lay it down when He showed up for me. Later, when He gave me the idea for mentorship and “Heart at Home,” I assumed it would be donaton-based or completely free services. But over the last three years, He has helped me understand how important it is for both me and my clients to honor the value of the work I do by establishing set prices for my services and offerings.The price you will see on the proposal I send your wife has been thoughtfully and prayerfully prepared, and I am always happy to provide more information about how the number on the page got there.Scholarship options are available for families that truly need both mentorship and financial support. These spaces are limited, and I require you to disclose the details of your present financial state before granting scholarships.If you want to read more of my thoughts on this topic of pricing services, here are a few articles I have written about spiritual labor and financial compensation:Pricing Your Services with GodHusbands, She's Your Most Valuable AssetSpiritual Labor is Worthy of Pay

Short Answer: Maybe!Long Answer: The fact that you and your wife are here on this page exploring mentorship with me indicates that she probably hasn’t found anyone in your church community who bears the kind of fruit she wants to bear in her own life.Mentorship through elders in your local church body should be available, but unfortunately, there are a lot of reasons why it often isn’t.I think one reason is that when feminism broke out across the globe among the older generations, that destroyed the possibility for us — the millennials and Gen-Z's — to have healthy elder women and moms to mentor us in God’s ways.Many women are trying to walk with God without any real-life examples of a woman who bears the kind of fruit she desires, much less: someone to actually speak with that is filled with the power and fear of the Lord.Often, if your wife does find that kind of woman, she's too busy to even consider mentoring your wife with the care, attention, and connection your wife needs.God has called me specifically to this work. This has involved me being crushed and humbled through seasons of incredible hardship so that I can be available for your wife with the level of support that will actually facilitate a real transformation.As for the "free" part of your question...The Bible instructs us in several places to materially support those who labor over us spiritually. This is why you tithe to your church — so that your pastor, administrative workers, worship team, Sunday school teachers, etc. can be paid.Here’s one of those verses:"If we have sown spiritual seed among you, is it too much for us to reap a material harvest from you?" 1 Corinthians 9:11Even if you were to find a woman in your local church who offered your wife the kind of support she will receive with me—and that local woman was not directly charging for it—God's scriptures still instruct you to pay and/or support her materially for her spiritual labor.If you're curious to read more about this, I have a couple helpful articles that expand my thoughts on this topic:Pricing Your Services with GodSpiritual Labor is Worthy of Pay

Short answer: When considering a mentorship with me, here are a few things to take into account:Does your wife have needs that only a trained medical or psychiatric provider can support?Do the areas in which your wife is struggling align the areas in which God has equipped me to serve? (See below).Is the fruit of my walk with God, my life, personality and values something you would like to shape your wife throughout her journey?Long answer: Mentorship with me is designed to be deeply relational. It is through this high-touch relationship that your wife has the opportunity to be transformed.Mentorship with me will include dedicated 1:1 time on video calls, along with ongoing contact via Telegram. The ongoing, asynchronous access is how your wife can receive actual support in real time. She doesn't have to wait for our next appointment to get help — she can be supported right away.Mentorship with me is not a replacement for mental health therapy, psychiatric support, or pastoral counseling. If your wife is in need of one of those, a professional in the correct field may be a better fit for her. Mentorship can be a supplement to those services, but we would need to speak further about your wife’s needs first.Here are some areas in which God has equipped me to serve women:Correcting false beliefs about God that affect how she relates to you and your childrenHelping her see the beauty of God's design of being a wife and a mom, and as a result, serving your family with more joy, ease, and delightGently revealing footholds satan has in her life that contribute to her struggling with various sinsTraining her to intercede in prayer for you and your children by the power of the Holy SpiritDeepening her communion with God in her day-to-day life, and as a result, blessing you and your children with an abundance of the fruit of the SpiritEncouraging her to exercise her unique gifts inside of and for the benefit of your householdAfter submitting her application, your wife and I will get on a video call to meet and discern if we are a good fit. You are more than welcome to come to that call, meet me (and my husband if you like!) and ask us all your questions!Even if the type of care I offer seems like a good fit for your wife, but there are personality clashes, that is worth honoring and considering before moving forward.

Short answer: Honestly, you don't! However, I fear the Lord and have absolutely zero interest in scamming you :)Long answer: Your wife doesn’t need more information — especially the kind she could freely find on the internet or in a book.What she needs is transformation, and this is why quite literally everything that I do is done through prayer. Without God, I am nothing. I have no value, no abilities, and no gifts to give. But with Him… anything is possible — even the transformation of a human heart.I am not here to just give your wife a piece of advice and suggest a couple things she can try on her own. I am interested and personally invested in her getting that breakthrough, transformation, and freedom of spirit she actually needs.I partner with the Holy Spirit—Ruach Ha’Kodesh—who dwells in me to petition our Creator God for His resurrection power to transform your wife into the image of Christ in your marriage and your home.And His promise is this:“…that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him.” —1 John 5:14-15And He is not a man that He should lie.

Short Answer: I believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God, of course, plus a few nuances you'll want to read before your wife works with me.Long Answer:Here's the usual stuff that I believe:Jesus Christ (Yeshua HaMashiach) is the Son of God. He came in a physical human body that was knit together in the womb of Mary of Nazareth, by the power of the Holy Spirit and not by human man.He came and lived a life that was completely bound to the lived-expression of our Heavenly Father and was entirely filled with the Holy Spirit. There was no darkness or sin in Him at all, which caused Him to be the only man who has ever lived a sinless, holy life before God.When He claimed to be the Jewish Messiah, the religious leaders conspired to have him crucified by Rome on a cross. As a result He was murdered. But it actually was okay because this was part of God's plan as His death-sentence removed ours. He died in our place and, by the unfathomable mercy of God, we got to walk away scott-free.As if that wasn't enough, He then rose from the dead three days later, permanently receiving His transformed body that was entirely un-temptable and without fleshly nature. In doing this, any physical death we experience is converted to a doorway where we too will receive spiritual bodies and be transformed into creatures that are coherent with heaven's holy perfection.Here's where it gets nuanced:I not only believe, but I know that God is still speaking today. It is because He speaks that I was saved. I heard His voice on the day of my salvation — it is what pushed the name of Jesus out of my own mouth and caused the demon that possessed me at the time to flee. You can read that in part two of my testimony.I believe that the "fruit of the Spirit" is not something to be accomplished in a person's life by them "trying hard" or "trying again." We cannot will ourselves to produce the fruit that only God Himself can produce — even the fruit of "self-control" (temperance). Instead, I believe it is only by grace — which according to the Strong's Concordance is literally "divine influence upon the heart that produces change in the life" — that those fruits find expression in the life. You can read more about this in an article I wrote called, "Controlling Yourself won't Produce the Holy Spirit's Fruit"I believe that the things your wife is struggling with have roots that go far deeper than just the surface level of her struggle. If you choose to have her work with me, the roots are the things we will be working on.If you have any questions about these points or other points of faith that are important for you to know, please bring those to the exploration call we will have once I receive your wife's application.